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Ending teen dating violence

I'm not just writing this blog as a fellow student, but as someone who's deeply passionate about an issue that's not talked about often: Teen Dating Violence (TDV). We're now halfway through February and Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month (TDVAM); let's aim to do more than raise awareness. Let's create a movement of change. 

The word "violence" usually makes us think of physical fights or harm, but TDV is not limited to just that; it encompasses emotional, sexual, and psychological abuse within romantic relationships. Dating violence is much more common than you may think, especially among teens. Statistics show that 1 in 3 teens in the U.S. will face some form of physical, sexual, or emotional abuse from a person they are dating or have dated. Emotional abuse is even more widespread, yet often goes unnoticed.

Recognizing the Signs

These statistics are more than just numbers—they represent real stories, real hurt. Recognizing the signs of abuse is vital. They aren't always obvious and can be quite subtle, but here are some warning signs that we as teens should look out for in our relationships:

  • Isolation From Friends and Family

  • Frequent Criticism or Humiliation 

  • Pressure to Conform or Comply

  • Excessive Texting or Monitoring

  • Unpredictable Mood Swings

  • Blaming You for Their Problems

  • Threats or Intimidation

  • Physical Harm or Threats of Violence


Breaking the Silence & the Cycle

Acknowledging that you or someone close to you could be in an abusive relationship is really tough. There's this big fear of not being believed or, even worse, the situation getting more dangerous if you speak up. It's super important that we work to change this. We need to create a safe environment for everyone to talk about these things and get the help they need.

Here's some ways we can make a difference:

  • Learn and Empower: Understanding the signs of TDV and knowing where to seek help are crucial first steps.

  • Promoting Healthy Relationships: We must advocate for relationships based on respect, trust, and honest communication.

  • Be There For Friends/Peers: If you believe someone could be in an abusive relationship, offer your support. Listen to them and guide them towards help.

  • Speak Out: Speak up against abuse. Your voice can be a powerful agent of change.

  • Engage With SADD: Get involved in our initiatives and campaigns. Share your experiences and learn from others.

Teen Dating Violence Awareness and Prevention Month is all about advocacy and education. By focusing on spreading awareness and providing the right information, we teens can recognize the signs of unhealthy relationships and help ourselves and others.

Using the power of our voices, we can break the cycle of violence.


If you or someone you know is experiencing a violent relationship, it's important to seek help. Reach out to a trusted adult, counselor, or contact a teen dating violence resource. You're not alone, and there are people ready to help you because no one deserves to be in an unsafe or unloved relationship.

Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Here are some non-judgemental & free resources:


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