"Are We Safe?"
- Rick Birt
- May 25, 2022
- 3 min read
A Critical Parent Conversation about School Violence
Today, almost 100 million parents woke up with fresh anxiety to start the day. It’s not “Sunday Scaries” or “First Day of School” jitters – it’s a question about whether their kiddo would come home that evening from school. In the wake of continued school violence and mass shootings, it’s the question every student (and parent) is asking - "Are we safe?"
Columbine. Sandy Hook. Parkland. Names that are forever haunted by the murders that took place in their hallways. Schools were long thought to be sanctuaries of safety, yet the pages of history continue to be filled with the horrors of the mental health crises in our country. SADD Nation grieves with the families of Robb Elementary and stands shoulder-to-shoulder with the parents, students, and school personnel across this country. They feel the unbearable anxiety that comes with entering the classroom. Our work is to engage parents and other adult allies struggling to answer the question of safety and engage in a meaningful dialogue with their students as we cope with this horror together.
Start Talking
There has never been a more critical time for a daily check-in with the students in your lives. A pandemic. A world war. Political strife. Continued violence. Most young people have never known a world without crises. Make sure this is not a “one and done” conversation but a deeper daily check-in to inquire into their physical, emotional, and mental state. If you need some tips on starting this conversation, check out the SADD Mental Health Toolkit. Making the conversation age-appropriate is vital, and our toolkit helps you find the right starting point – chances are they know more than you know.
Acknowledge the Feeling
We have a phobia of feelings in this country – be honest with your student, and sharing how your feeling is a great way to knock down the walls and dive into open dialogue. You can say things like, “watching the news about another school shooting makes me feel ______. How are you feeling?”
Grapple with the Fear of the Unknown
There is nothing more terrifying than the fear of the unknown, especially for students trying to make sense of a world around them that quite frankly doesn’t make sense. Do not use phrases like “you’ll be fine” or “it won’t happen here.” Instead, talk about the actionable steps that schools are taking. Highlight your school’s safety plan and listen to their concerns. Your patience is crucial and will help you better understand their perspective.
Talk about Mental Health
America is facing a mental health crisis. Read that again. You must talk with your students about their mental health, the mental health of those in their friend circle, and beyond. We know that most perpetrators of violence give clear signs of their intentions.
Our students play a crucial role in checking in on one another, and we need more of that. Talk with your student about how they can be friends with those in their social circles. If they know that someone is having a tough time, that’s the moment to talk with a School Counselor or other mental health professional. Friendship means looking out for each other, which has never been more critical than right now.
Advocate
We need more mental health resources, especially in our schools. SADD is proud to lead the fight to provide additional counseling, mental health, and crisis resources to schools. As a former School Board Member, I encourage you to ask your elected officials how your district responds and advocate for additional resources. Our students need you.
The world is a dark and scary place, especially for our students who cannot escape the landscape of crises. Keep the conversation going and be prepared to answer the question coming your way – “Are we safe?"
Rick Birt
President & CEO
This article, "Are We Safe?", really hit home. The anxiety surrounding school violence is something so many parents feel daily, and the points about consistent, age-appropriate conversations and acknowledging feelings are incredibly important. It's a heavy topic, but the actionable advice on talking about mental health and advocating for resources offers a flicker of hope. In times like these, finding moments of lightness or connection can also be helpful for families. For a unique way to create some fun art from photos, you might enjoy checking out AI Cartoon Generator.
This article, "Are We Safe?", really hit home. The anxiety described is something so many parents are feeling daily. The actionable advice on how to initiate and sustain these difficult conversations with our children, acknowledging their feelings, and grappling with the fear of the unknown, is incredibly valuable. I particularly appreciate the emphasis on mental health and advocating for more resources – it's something we all need to be pushing for. It’s a powerful reminder that we must stay engaged and have these critical dialogues. If you ever need to quickly combine image documents, a helpful free tool I've stumbled upon is Merge JPG; it's secure and works right in your browser.
This article, "Are We Safe?", really articulates the profound anxiety many parents and students are feeling right now. The advice to "Start Talking" and "Acknowledge the Feeling" is so crucial; these aren't easy conversations, but they're absolutely necessary for building trust and understanding. The emphasis on mental health and advocacy is also vital. It's a heavy read, but a necessary one, and it provides thoughtful ways to approach such a difficult topic. For anyone involved in writing or sharing serious content like this, having reliable tools is key. Speaking of which, for drafting important documents or converting notes, I've found Markdown to Doc incredibly useful for turning Markdown into Word documents seamlessly.
This article, "Are We Safe?", really articulates the profound anxiety many parents feel today. The emphasis on consistent, age-appropriate dialogue and acknowledging feelings with our children is so vital. It's not about providing easy answers, but about grappling with the fear of the unknown together, and the practical suggestions for discussing mental health are particularly impactful. Rick Birt's call to advocate for more mental health resources in schools resonates deeply. For anyone looking for clear, concise ways to approach complex issues, much like how a service can simplify a complicated file format, this piece offers an excellent guide. You might find similar clarity when looking into tools like Converter PNG to SVG for digital design needs.
This article truly hits home. The question "Are we safe?" resonates deeply with parents everywhere, and the insights on having ongoing, age-appropriate conversations with our children are invaluable. Acknowledging their feelings and grappling with the fear of the unknown, rather than dismissing it, is such crucial advice for navigating these difficult times. I particularly appreciate the emphasis on mental health and advocacy. This proactive approach is exactly what's needed. For those looking for creative ways to express themselves or even process difficult emotions, sometimes a visual outlet can help – perhaps exploring tools like AI Image Generator By Nano Banana Pro could even be a unique way to generate visual representations of feelings or hopes for a safer future, facilitating…